Welcome
 

Facing a divorce or family breakup can be a dramatic and traumatic experience. If you are visiting this site, then chances are you are thinking about or going through a divorce or separation. Perhaps you want to know the possible consequences (both long-term and immediate) of your action on the children.
 
Most parents are overwhelmed when facing a breakup and need reassurance and guidance. It is difficult to chart a course when emotions are at such a high level. Friends and relatives usually have lots of opinions, ideas and support. But they are not good advisors because of their emotional involvement. What is needed is un-biased, rational, concrete, objective support, experience, and advice.
 
It is our goal to offer that type of experience and advice to you.
 

The fact that you are reading this indicates that you have a desire to do as little harm to the children as possible, and to minimize the conflict between parties. That is commendable.

 
Here's what is presented:
• Strategies for parenting plans.
• Techniques to deal with hurt and angry partners.
• Encouragement to keep the children the number one focus of any action.
 
Here's what this information can do for you:
• Help you to determine a course of action.
• Give you a knowledge of the pros and cons of a family breakup through a complete review of potential paths.
 
We provide:

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 A place that gives reasonable, reliable, useful, and beneficial assistance to the children and parties of a “break-up."
• Emotional support and an opportunity to express fear and grief.
• A chance to review the consequences of what you are about to do, and the possible outcomes. 
• A place to learn the long term value of keeping the home intact if at all possible. Some couples consider staying together and finding solutions for their differences.
• Guidelines for addressing areas of domestic violence, alcohol and drug abuse as barriers to success and not as alternatives for action.
• Methods to deal, with sensitivity and care, the real fear of reprisal/retaliation by the other party.
 
Please begin by selecting an item from the menu. If this is your first visit to this site, we would strongly urge you to view the "envisage" page to review the consequences and possible outcomes of your action.